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EXPERIENCE

I will try to see every experience as a chance to learn about myself and grow into a better person.

EXPERIENCE

We all know people who have gone through experiences that should have made them stronger, more interesting, more confident, or more empathetic. Yet somehow they've passed through the experiences seemingly unphased. We should see such people as cautionary examples of what happens when we fail to actively engage the world. Our experiences are not going to do anything for us unless we choose to do something with our experiences.

EXPERIENCE

"Experience is not what happens to a man. It is what a man does with what happens to him." ~ALDOUS HUXLEY~

VERSE TO REMEMBER

"I am the Alpha and the Omega," says the Lord God, "who is, and who was, and who is to come, the Almighty." ~REVELATION 1:8~

BEING OURSELVES

I am who I am. While I can always improve, I will not let anyone try to make me what they want me to be.

BEING OURSELVES

The urger to please is powerful, even when it pushes us to be someone we are not. When we try too hard to please, we usually fail to please anyone-not the person we were aiming to please and certainly not ourselves. If people can't accept us for who we are, then we have to ask ourselves why we should want to have a relationship with them to begin with. We should never have to be inauthentic to earn someone's love or respect.

BEING OURSELVES

"The easiest thing in the world to be is you. The most difficult thing to be is what other people want you to be. Don't let them put you in that position." ~LEO BUSCAGLIA~

FINDING FAULT

I will try not to criticize someone unless I can offer a better solution.

FINDING FAULT

We all like to criticize, even if we have no idea how we could do any better than those we are criticizing. Sure some people deserve to be criticized. But we could offer our criticism with a little humility especially when we know that people are doing the best they can and that we probably do not do any better ourselves.

FINDING FAULT

"To find a fault is easy; to do better may be difficult." ~PLUTARCH~