We are all faced with choices and decisions everyday, some small and some life changing..and when the right ones are made, and good things happen from your life changing choices, its such a great feeling..and sometimes we make the wrong choices, the wrong decisions for so many different reasons..its not a crime, its life. Sometimes we know as soon as we made them, it was the wrong choice, wrong decision..but for whatever reason can't or won't admit it, try to fix it before its too late..and sometimes it takes a while to sink in..and when the realization hits, it is often too late. And often it snowballs, to try fix one bad decision, we make yet another..and another, wondering why we chose so badly in the first place..and why our options are becoming fewer with each bad decision we make. And when you look around you and it becomes obvious that you've made all the wrong choices for all the wrong reasons BUT are given the opportunity to try it again..to change that one bad decision from the very beginning to the right one..and to see where that takes you...why wouldn't you take it? Especially if you KNOW it. How many times do we wish we had the chance to do something again? Or make things right with the one(s) we love??? Thinking of what we may have done differently, if only....?? All of the "what if's".. An opportunity to "redo"... Very rarely is that second chance an option.. Do we accept the opportunity..admit to ourself and maybe others that maybe just maybe we were wrong, that we made the wrong choice, or just let another opportunity pass us by..always wondering how different things could've been..if only....
Life is so short and so very precious..if someone hurts you, tell them..then move on..if someone makes you happy, let them know, if you love someone, don't hurt them, listen to them, show them, don't just tell them, actions ALWAYS speak louder than words..live, love, laugh...no regrets... TammyT
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We are all faced with choices and decisions everyday, some small and some life changing..and when the right ones are made, and good things happen from your life changing choices, its such a great feeling..and sometimes we make the wrong choices, the wrong decisions for so many different reasons..its not a crime, its life. Sometimes we know as soon as we made them, it was the wrong choice, wrong decision..but for whatever reason can't or won't admit it, try to fix it before its too late..and sometimes it takes a while to sink in..and when the realization hits, it is often too late. And often it snowballs, to try fix one bad decision, we make yet another..and another, wondering why we chose so badly in the first place..and why our options are becoming fewer with each bad decision we make. And when you look around you and it becomes obvious that you've made all the wrong choices for all the wrong reasons BUT are given the opportunity to try it again..to change that one bad decision from the very beginning to the right one..and to see where that takes you...why wouldn't you take it? Especially if you KNOW it. How many times do we wish we had the chance to do something again? Or make things right with the one(s) we love??? Thinking of what we may have done differently, if only....?? All of the "what if's".. An opportunity to "redo"... Very rarely is that second chance an option.. Do we accept the opportunity..admit to ourself and maybe others that maybe just maybe we were wrong, that we made the wrong choice, or just let another opportunity pass us by..always wondering how different things could've been..if only....
Life is so short and so very precious..if someone hurts you, tell them..then move on..if someone makes you happy, let them know, if you love someone, don't hurt them, listen to them, show them, don't just tell them, actions ALWAYS speak louder than words..live, love, laugh...no regrets... TammyT
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