Brynleigh Chandler

As you continue to seek and find your Prince Charming, you may be wondering what you can do differently to find him faster. We know. We asked ourselves this same question. What we found from our experiences was there was a better question to ask first: are you ready to find him and meet him? We asked ourselves and it was quite a process to consider it. Your first reactions may be typical like ours such as "What do mean am I ready? I've been ready for so many years!" or "I'm ready, I'm so ready!" Many women have dated men and gotten what they've asked for - a man that meets or exceeds their needs. For some women, when they get what they ask for, they become fearful and tend to go into a state of waffling between "yes, I want this, and no, I don't want this." Or maybe this isn't it? Or maybe this isn't enough? Or maybe, just maybe, I don't believe it's really happening to me - and I don't know what to do now. We pull into our lives what we say we want and then when it gets too close, too scary, too real or too intimate, we panic and push the very person we said we wanted away. This results in everyone's confusion and not the desired outcome. Does this sound familiar? Before you leap into the next date or relationship, look at yourself first and genuinely ask, are you ready? We define "ready" as ready to have the extraordinary intimate, romantic relationship you've been seeking at the same time that you continue to enjoy and expand your brilliant, successful professional career. This "readiness" comes from a desire to communicate openly, be transparent about your thoughts, feelings and emotions, and focus on working with your man as a teammate, lover and partner as opposed to just someone you date. Having it all means not giving up anything - it means enjoying both a healthy, loving relationship and an amazing career. We believe this delicate balance results from putting your relationship first. What you do and learn in your intimate relationship can then enrich the way you work professionally. This is where your being ready for it is essential. Ask yourself these simple questions that we asked ourselves: - Are you ready, willing and excited to have it all? - Can you picture yourself having a great relationship while enjoying the benefits of a rewarding career? - Are you ready to do what it takes to have it all? If you feel you are ready, you are about to experience one of the heights of life's experiences - a true, deep, romantic relationship with someone who cares deeply for you. When you let it in, it will take everything in your life to the levels you've dreamed of. Allowing this relationship to begin, seed and blossom is one of the foundational pieces to the relationship puzzle that often gets lost for many women who get "spooked" when it finally happens to them. Marie Curie said, "Nothing in life is to be feared; it is only to be understood. Now is the time to understand more, so we may fear less." How to Keep Romance in a Relationship With time and life's commitments, the romance in the relationship fades away letting the couple struggling so hardly to chase the few moments of happiness that may occur in their life from time to time. How to keep romance in a relationship is often the most desired thing that many couples try so hardly to fulfil. Though it is not easy to revive the first days of the relationship, where excitement and the desire to discover each partner's life were naturally flowing, any couple can bring the lost warm into his relationship again with little commitment, because a relationship needs maintenance as does anything in life, the more you give the more you take, that's the rules and no one can beat the system. On the contrary of what many may think long term relationships have their benefits; in fact they boost the sense of security and fidelity, but the down side is the routine and daily rituals which can kill the romance if they are not treated in the right manner. The key is to be innovative, both in home and outside, it is a good idea to change the house furniture and look from time to time, also you can invite friends to dine with you or to arrange a small party, and it is a great way to get rid of daily tasks and the world of business. Put those meetings on your priority list and make sure to set a time a side to spend with your partner, once the priority list is done don't allow yourself to change it. Apology is a nice act that shows how much the other partner takes care of our feelings, so don't hesitate to take responsibility of your faults, this will enhance your trustfulness in the eyes of your lover and will boost your efforts on how to keep romance in a relationship. Say it clearly and with sincerity to your lover that you are sorry. Great people are those who believe in happiness of others. For many people arguing is a bad behaviour, that's right but you can take advantage of it is bright side, yes you read that right arguing has a bright side and I'll show how. After a long term relationships many partners take their other half for granted and believe that they will understand their thoughts without even talking, sorry to inform you that is not true, but more than that, acting in such a way will build resentment within the relationship. When you argue with your partner, you are dealing with the issues that slip into your life, so you are resolving problems and chasing away any misunderstood that may occur among couples. That's how to keep romance in a relationship.

Baltimore, MD