As I find myself getting older I ask myself what is really important in life? Family, money, career, sex, fame, happiness, etc. At 28 I find that my relationship with Christ is the most important. Call it "hokie" or "cheesy," but I've found that a person cannot truly be happy unless they are in right standing with GOD. You may be able to fake it for years, but as the Word says, "And the peace of God, which passeth all understanding, shall keep your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." Phillipians 4:7. You ever hear something for years and years and you understand the concept but it never really becomes a reality in your mind until like 20 years later? Well, that how this scripture worked for me. I see now that happiness is a state of mind/body/spirit. Think about it.