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Sama Merced / Blog

How I Can Keep My Family Together Healthy If I’m A Rock Musician?

Always I genre before write a question, but today I am more confused than ever. Well, the question in my head spinning How I can keep my Family together Healthy if I’m a rock Musician?

Many fellow musicians have lost their families because they have believed that, completely abandoning his family for success in music scene. As you know is where most divorces occur for the same reason as before mentioned.

When I dedicated to the music I was carrying my wife and children to all shows, it was possible to clear. Those who do not, then let them at home or in a cinema, shopping center. But I always had this in mind, welcome addition to my gender for whom more money? Fame is not what they need is a father and a mother who lead their lives.

The world is full of bands who talk about suicide and things that are not good for young people. What would you do in that case if you belong to one of them know that it is a means of drawing attention and being rebellious. But those small minds that are growing and more that are not on your side you should leave behind. You will be ,more aware of them and have two jobs, the show and explain to your children those lyrics.

I used to meet with them after each show and if was awake, I asked, Do you want an adventure guys? So my team unloaded the van and we went out somewhere fun. Another way left him notes where I committed the next day to go out on an adventure, even around the island of Puerto Rico. So dear reader if I could do it why not you?

Do not let the main family problems that I mean your parents influence your head and form a Better World. Create in your mind how you want your children see you grow up, you’re always a model for them just like they were for those people and crazy girls in PUB!

Who would be interested in the life of a musician who was badly treating with your children? If you have them love them and holiday with them. And love them MORE THAN YOUR MUSIC! They are the reason for your life they are your music, they are your FANS # 1. And Keep on Rocking!

All the reason for this words, I lost my son I take him to all my shows but he is out of control by drugs. I’m FAIL with him. Bryan was like me! And I love so much and he liked the music maybe more than me, but those lyrics that he wrote I never take care seriously, he was a natural poet. He was cry in his songs about all this Mad World.

And let me tell you something “TAKING CARE OF BUSINESS” and your business its your Family, dude!!