This is the second installment for my blog about fathers, as we move towards Fathers day. The second father figure in my life is a man of God, who mentored me and supported both my spiritual and social development. He did not grow up with his father and probably had to figure out a lot of things for himself, which makes his impact on me even more impressive.
I was privileged, at that time in my life, to have the input he gave, as what I gleaned from my natural father was more based on his example, principles and ethics, rather than what was actually said. What I did not receive was the intellectual development.
It is only as we grow that we become aware of the true value of things and also about what things are indeed important in life. I think that there are large numbers of people who grow up, as it were, without a guide. We have to try and work things out ourselves. Sometimes this means making several mistakes, which could have been avoided, if only someone was there to tell us and teach us. When someone does take the time to deposit into your life, what he or she is doing is increasing your capacity and value. This is what this spiritual father did for me. It is undeniable that I have benefited from his input and I remain grateful to God for what he used to do in my life.
Where your father perhaps was absent, God is able to place another male in your life, who will take a genuine interest in you and support your growth and development.
Here comes a song which celebrates the role and function of fathers. From my perspective, similarly as with men in general, the role of fathers seems to be hard to sum up and yet the absence of fathers seems to be so detrimental upon our society. I have had 3 father figures in my life and each of them have left positive and indelible contributions. In this blog I want to briefly share about the first figure, my (natural/birth) father. He is a man who I have grown to respect immensely, simply for the person he is. His values and ethics, his strength in the face of his own disappointments and adversities. His example of contentment with his own lot in life and his limitless generosity towards others; even to those who were neither kind nor generous towards him. He is an amputee, having lost both his legs through health complications, but he still stands taller than many. He is illiterate (so says the dictionary) but he is wiser than so many. In conclusion, you will notice that the title of this blog is called 'Fatherless'. This is not because I am without a father, but because 1) I realise how unfortunate I would be if I had not had his example to follow 2) I hope that those who read these words and relate to the title would either find encouragement in what they too experienced or find hope in this and the next 2 blogs on this theme.
Does ministry have to be forfeited at the cost of entertainment. Is it possible to be built up spiritually while enjoying yourself. Is this something that we should be seeking to do as believers. Or is this just being over spiritual?
The entertainment industry is booming on so many fronts. Music, video, music videos, movies, IPlayers, IPhones, On Demand services. Smart phones, tablets, Kindles and the list goes on. So many things that seek to secure our attention. While these items are fast becoming necessities, even the necessary devices are carrying elements of entertainment.
Greater emphasis is now being placed on entertainment and its place in modern society, probably than ever before. How should we as Christians view this (need of/place for entertainment in our lives)? What should our attitude be towards what is presented to us and before us?
I find the words of (Sir/Lord JOHN REITH, 1889-1971; Managing director, BBC 1922-1926), worthy of a mention here. Reith summarized the BBC's purpose in three words: 1) educate, 2) inform, 3) entertain. (Notice the order of function).
Lord Reith also went on to say. "He who prides himself on giving what he thinks the public wants is often creating a fictitious demand for low standards which he will then satisfy".
Entertainment in this time seems to be increasingly mingled with frivolity. Vanity of vanities might well be befitting here. It seems to be empty and void of anything beneficial or meaningful. So much of it is contrary to godliness and the wholesome words of Jesus. Paul tackled this issue masterfully in 1Cor 10. Why not have a read of it and tell me what you think?
When I completed the Flesh War project, I did it more so in obedience to God and because of my own challenges, however the more that I think and meditate on this message, the more that I see it's relevance. Christians are not the only ones preaching. In fact the world is daily preaching. The media, the movies, pop culture is preaching. They are all delivering a message, a code of conduct and a lifestyle. I have friends that are not Christians, who are also saying the same things to me. Then on the other hand I have Christian friends who ain't saying anything. This society is disintegrating from a moral standpoint, and we all just seem to be just going about our daily lives; business as usual. I know that is not the case, but there is a seriously loud silence that is present in this present culture. Can you hear it?
In writing this blog I am reminded of the story "The Emperors New Clothes". Without going into the depths of the story, it is ultimately about how people firstly put up a facade and then keep it there even when they know (and know that others know) it is not real. Ever since the fall of man in the garden we have been putting on our emperors clothes of fig leaves. This is the sentiment that the prophet expresses in Isaiah 28:20. Most people prefer to be pretend over being real. Often when you are real people can't handle it, they get offended, misunderstand you or (mis) judge you. Often this is because they are more comfortable living in the fictious than facing the facts - after all that's easier to do......for some. But there are some people who want to be at one with who they are within, as well as with who they are to the outside world. Are you one of them, or are you still walking in the emporers fictitious clothes?