not my will but His will be done
We face problems that need to be resolved and placed in order, go to God in Faith, and ask Him to use you and to give you wisdom and insight that will help to solve the problems you or those around you face. We will be better than before.
And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect. Rom.12:2 nasb