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You Can't Do It Alone!

Great advice my parents, professors and really good friends have given me over the years:

• The goal of a GREAT performance should be to touch and affect your audience, not to receive personal applause & praise from them. • YOU aren't the S_ _ _ _ you thought you were. • As GOOD as you are, you are BETTER WITH and BECAUSE of others.

The most AMAZING actor can ONLY BE AMAZING on screen because of the writers, directors, cast members, producers, cameramen, sound men, casting directors, agents, managers, production assistants, fans and etc.! You can't be AMAZING at home in a room by yourself…talking to yourself.

Lead singers are only RECOGNIZED and as good as the music that surrounds them. Trust me (I've had first hand experience), NO one notices when you're in the house singing to yourself.

But, when Greg, Larry, Caitlin, Valerie, Francis and I get onstage, TOGETHER, it's frickin AWSOME!!!

Just a reminder to myself when I make life NOT about ME, LIFE is really good!!!

AND YES, MY BAND IS JUST THAT AWSOME!!!

I'll always miss you but...

On Sunday,

I'll take with me, everywhere I go, those 4 walls, a piece of HOME!

I twirled batons competitively from the time I was 3 until I was 18. (My twirling friends will understand this.) My mom sat outside in the heat, cold, rain, didn't matter, watching me practice. We would fuss, laugh, scream. My dad would watch and laugh at my mom and me as we fussed at each other.

My mom and dad traveled the country year after year, competition to competition. They sat in gym after gym watching hour after hour of baton twirlers, listening to the same song for hours. They drove me to lessons 6 hours away from home. They encouraged me, cheered for me, cried with me, never lied to me and ALWAYS loved me…win, lose, great job, bad job, great attitude, poor attitude, they ALWAYS loved me…they ALWAYS made me feel at peace…at home.

On top of all that, they both worked full-time jobs and still managed to attend every football, baseball or basketball game my brothers played in…and at one time or another, they played in them all! They attended every game I cheered for, every assembly, conference for WHATEVER we were doing - sports, school, music, theater, dance, debate, graduation…WHATEVER!

They told us that we could do ANYTHING. And at that time, I believed it. I would get beat down and they would pick me back up and remind me that I could do ANYTHING.

My father passed away my senior year in college and my mom reminded me that she and my father still knew I could do ANYTHING. Right before my mom passed away, she told me to finish my first album and again reminded me that I could do ANYTHING. My 1st CD Release Party was a couple months after she passed. And for a while, there was no one there to cheer me on and I forgot that I could do ANYTHING.

It took some time but something deep inside tugged at me and reminded me that I could still do anything…that the HOME my parents gave me was still in me. The HOME that allowed me to do ANYTHING if I only believed, was STILL inside me. I began to feel my parent's love and hear their encouragement again. I began to approach life with the old fire mixed with a new determination.

This coming Sunday, May 18th, Home, my band, will perform on the main stage at the House of Blues. Although, I won't physically be able see my parents cheering me on in the audience, I will feel them and hear them in my heart…I will be at HOME and I will continue doing ANYTHING!

Performing on the street of LA

Tomorrow, Saturday, Oct. 19, 2013, HOME will be back on the 3rd Street Promenade doing our thing! Last week was our first time out there and we couldn't have asked for anything more out of performance. We gained fans, sold CDs, received donations & played together for the fist time with our new members! It was CRAZY GOOD TIMES!

Tomorrow, we continue the good times as well as continue filming our web series! SUPER excited and would love for you to join us if you're in the area. If you aren't in town, I'll let you know how it went as soon as I get HOME! peace

Stephen JT James aka Tootsweet
Stephen JT James aka Tootsweet  (5 months ago)

Okay there is nothing like good music from Home. Home is where the heart is. GOD IS WHERE OUR SOULS SHOULD BE>share the love from home.

Welcome Home!

Last night, we had auditions for the band and God came through as he always does! Jessica Rau with her INCREDIBLE voice and even better personality and Francis Salamanca...give him a sax and it's OVER!!! They both bring energy, excitement and SOOOO much talent! Last night's rehearsal was definitely a time of welcoming family HOME!

The Adventure Begins!

The CD is released. The Summer Concert Series was a success and now, we are off and running. We will spend this fall playing around Los Angeles and surrounding areas promoting the album, and having a GOOD time!

We are currently looking for a couple more pieces to complete the band so if you are a guitar, horn or keys guy (or girl), and you like what we do, we're looking for you! Send me a message and we'll set you up for an audition.

Let the adventure begin!

HOME End of Summer Bash!

DON'T MISS OUT! Amazing Indie Music!

"HOME" in their FINAL SHOW OF THE SUMMER!!!

Jerome Holloway, Caitlin Leow, Alan Marco, Matthew Leddy...and of course, HOME!

MUSIC. FOOD. DRINKS. and A WHOLE LOT OF FUN! Hosted by POETRI!

Cover: $10

AMUSEMENT PARK ENT. 1913 Centinela Ave. Santa Monica, CA 90404

NEW Contest Announcement! Hey Everybody, we are looking for songs that remind you of your best summer EVER! We will have 2 winners - the person who's song gets the most likes on the their post, and secondly, our pick. The winners will receive 2 free tickets each to Spoken Funk, one of the hottest tickets in town. The winner will be announced at the show on Saturday, August 31.

Home Debut Release!

I can't believe it's finally here! The album is complete. The iTunes release is up and it's time to have some fun! Catch us in concert beginning June 29th at the HOME Summer Concert Series! Amusement Park Ent., 1913 Centinela Ave., Santa Monica, Ca 90404 @ 8PM.

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